Blessed by the little things!

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I could go on & on about how blessed I am but its all those little things that are such a Big blessing! When I witness one of my children helping their brother or sister, giving each other a hug or kiss, telling them they are their best friend.... now don't get me wrong my kids Do argue & fight with one another & it does drive this mommy crazy but that craziness just drifts away when I witness the love they have for each other & for me! :)) Some good advice was given today at the MOPS (mothers of preschoolers) group I'm involved in.... we had a panel of seasoned moms (moms with grown kids) one thing that was said was they wished they didn't yell so much at there kids. Wow that really got me! I use to yell more when I had less children, I have gradually been working on & getting better at staying calm. Believe me though I need to keep working on that one! Some other good advice was to spend time with your kids, get down at their level & play! I know for some moms this is simple but for those of us that think we have "to do" all the time, it can be more challenging. I have made it a priority to talk, read & play with my kids daily. Giving your children chores & teaching them to be responsible was also mentioned. I think I do well  at that one, but its definitely not easy. I have found it to get a little easier though as time passes, when the kids get into a routine & know whats expected it just becomes a part of daily life. But I also have to always remind myself to be flexible at times. This mommy thing is definitely a loooong learning adventure! I will continue on the mommy adventure for many years & hopefully learn more & more about my children & about this life.